Being fake (?)

Hi!

I'm watching a video now about a girl who seems pretty upset for being called fake. 
Personally, I've never been called fake before. I have been told that I behave like I'm better than everyone else or that I behave like I don't want to be bother though lol that just makes me laugh.

Anyways, the lady in the video is talking about (I guess someone did this to her) how she may have been called fake for wearing make-up. Honestly,  I've never heard this before. Do we seriously live in a world where a person's outer appearance can speak for them before they even open their mouth?

Well, I typed this on her video: 

"Woah, make-up makes a person fake?? I've never heard that one before.If I can add to this, I think certain people have their beliefs on what's real and what isn't. Such as some people may believe being bluntly honest is real,and some people may find it to me rude.In the end,you can't be everything everyone wants you to me.I would say it would be impossible,but I think by the nightfall, the person trying to do this would have many many characters to the point they can't find who they really are."

I could sit here and ramble about this and say why calling people names is "wrong", but I won't. That would just be a waste of  time. This topic is completely on my list of things that I find to be kind of pointless and not worth talking about. 

I'll simply say this, what a person wears is their means of self- expression. Let them wear what they want because if it's messing with their mentality, THEY would have to deal with it not YOU.

It's very great that you are so concerned for that person to the point where you feel the need to address your opinions of them. But honestly, if they haven't asked you for your opinion, why make a scene and give it. 

It could be as simple as this:

When you see them, keep walking and let it be.

If someone, simply passing you in a hallway, annoys you that much, maybe you should consider searching in yourself why it's bothering you so much. And if you have bad history, let it go. Holding grudges against other people will only make you seem like a bitter person or make it seem like you're hating on the person.

And for the most part, I can see that people who speak their opinions may not be hating, it may be that they are venting or are annoyed so they feel the need to express themselves verbally. But consider this, when you open your mouth to bash someone, just like you calling that person "fake" you are setting yourself up to be called names by others.

That's all I have to say about this.

Thanks for reading.

Mon