Learning Tact and diplomacy!!

CHARRRRRGGGEEE!!

Hi! I'm a little hyper. I was thinking happy thoughts while washing the dishes. Now I feel like cleaning a lot!

So, what's up with today's blog?

Hm...Tact and diplomacy!

Yep yep!

For the past....2 years maybe, yes, I printed out a bunch of pages of my birth chart analysis online. In 2008....oops, nope that's 4 years!  Well, regardless of numbers, I printed this out. And it mentioned something about how I should learn to have at least a bit of tact and diplomacy.

I've never heard of that word before, so I looked it up. How surprised I was! It is an issue I have.

See, now I will explain to you how the inner me conflicts with the outer me.

On the inside I feel all the things I type. I know there are many different views out there in the world. But I also get this very strong cringing feeling in my chest when I hear someone make a very (sorry for my judgement) "narrow-minded" statement.

My birth chart said, that I too, can become dogmatic, and that if I learned even just a small amount of tact, it could help me.

I guess this is why I stopped talking so much and just listen. It's tough, because my feelings are difficult for my true beliefs. I go by what I feel. Which is mainly healthy or unhealthy based on how I go about it. Y'know, because of the whole freewill thing.

I always think something in me conflicts with each other. It's a pain in my...um...in me! haha  Because it's like, I feel one way, but I want to say something else.

For example, although I do believe people have their own views, if someone says something to me and I can see that if they act out the way they are saying, it could end badly, I feel like I want to step in and help. But I know that people have to learn for themselves. "I can fix everything!! What about my life?"

This is what I mean. So with tact, I can allow people to be people. And if I stop trying to fix everyone and everything, then that means I can focus on me a bit more.

The only issue with this is I worry that I may be to engulfed in ME. And work with myself for a very long time without considering helping anyone because of what I thought (letting people live their lives). I'm trying to balance this. I realized I started doing this last month. I would just sit in my room and do things I enjoy and I rarely spoke to anyone.

It was tough!! So now I hang out and talk on the phone more. That's not to say I closed off everyone, I still typed online. But it's just that I know so many people it's hard to give them all equal time. So I needed a break >___<

So now instead, maybe I'll just go with my feelings, rather than worrying "is this person wondering where I am right now?" It's not that I'm inconsiderate, it's just that I have things I enjoy doing too. And if I always work with people, I'll forget about me.

So, yes! Allowing people to just be. My birth chart mentioned something like how I should work with the animal kingdom, or plant kingdom to repair and restore or help with repairing the psyche of people who need it. It's mentioned a few things I can do in life. It's so overwhelming @___@ I wonder "how the heck was I bored in the past??" And I've also spoken to people who said "I'm not good at anything" or "I have no hobbies"

But there's a whole world with countless things to do out there. You don't have to follow anyone else, create your own game~

Mon