We're like scales!

I think each person possesses a certain amount of different traits, and they also feel they need a certain amount of different parts to feel a bit happy! We're like scales, but different scales needed more or less of a certain thing.

For example, some people have a lot of extra confidence. When it is excessive, most people would probably consider it to be vain and annoying! To me it's funny sometimes, but I understand the annoyance. But looking at it I think "is there really anything wrong with that person?"

Well, I guess sometimes some of us can tell when someone's scale is tipping over! But I believe that those characteristics, even if they're annoying, make a person who they are. We're not perfect at all. I see it like this, someone who hides certain factors (this is similar to me) to try to either impress or make it seem as if they're normal, in comparison to a person who is all out there being exactly who they are, probably still has a lot to learn about learning and living. I think to truly live is to truly be who you are at the full extent and if you  make a mistake, take responsibility for it, get up, and go for it again!

The person who is reserved may live very little, experiencing only a half cup of life. They don't get the full benefits. There's a kind of fear of leaving one's comfort zone. I think sometimes people become annoyed by people who are TOO out there. Let's take Miley Cyrus for example. Personally I don't dislike her. It's more to do with the fact that she's doing whatever without fear! The fact that she's fearless of whatever the consequences may be makes me feel that she's growing more. Even if the consequences are not good, there's something about growing and learning more from a huge situation.

I'm not sure if they is really true, but it's something I respect in some people. Such as a person who has a difficult life. I can't help but respect them. Especially if the make it to the surface from the dark! Something like that is not easy. And for the people who are risk takers, they charge into the situations head first! lol Isn't that amazing!

While the reserved ones slowly walk in , nervous and stopping at every sound. You see what I mean. Although the risk takers may come out battered, it seems they get farther in some way. I'm not say that everyone should run out there! Everyone is different. However, what I'm saying is that some people have more of something that others, and something like that, is it necessary to dislike? If you would like people to respect the introverted you, or the you who is shy, then you should at least try to respect the loud ones, the one's who are very confident.

I believe that seeing things in such a way makes things a lot easier! I mean, yeah that say irk comes back, but when I see things in this way I can't help but smile.

Now some people do force certain aspects to make it appear that they are something that they aren't. Personally I don't think this is wrong. It's kind of like pushing beyond your comfort zone. They seem awkward because it's no who they are, but eventually it may become second nature to them. It's something that's new that they're learning. Should we applaud them for trying?

I don't know if it's naive for me to think this way, or wise lol Honestly, I have no idea.

Mon