Living the Past

Hi!

Today I'd like to talk about living in the past.

Personally, I don't know if I live in the past. But I do know for certain that if I start to think about it, I usually write it down or just let it go away, reminding myself that that was years ago. I know when I do think about it, I try to find a solution. Such as "well, that person isn't me. They have their own life" and it makes me feel better.

I don't like to impose my negative thoughts on people. And when I do, I'm grateful if someone can put up with it lol

But I have known people who seem to have really hurtful past. It's usually to the point they it seems they live their lives in a way that devalues their worth. I think everyone is worthy of course! And these people were honestly very beautiful to me. Just kind of shattered.

Hm....well, I have had a time when I spent so much time reflecting and I just didn't want to talk. Eventually I think we have to face a situation that was bad head on, and accept that it happened. Sometimes when we want answers we can't have, we usually obsess about it.

But sometimes the answers won't show up until years later. Such as a person who goes through painful relationships, then one day they meet someone who just understands them. In a way I wonder if they went through  that pain to understand true happiness.

But sometimes people may go through pain, not realizing they are causing themselves the pain by what they are thinking and manifesting. Certain energies attract.

Well, even if people don't believe in manifestation, I think it's healthier to be positive. That's doesn't mean to not be realistic about things, it just means understanding that an outer force can effect our emotions, but our emotions do not control us. Yeah they come up, but in the end we control what we do.

I always ALWAYS consider moments when someone is being aggressive and manipulative. Where a person feels they have no freedom. In situations like that I definitely say seek help. I'm not professional in this field, but I heard of this happening and a person feels completely helpless.

Honestly, no one has the right to overtake your freewill. No matter what, you are a human being, don't you deserve to be treated like one.

And when that situation is over, breath, see that it's a new morning, you are starting over. Everyday is a new day to try something new, such as being much more kinder.

I wonder if people think "well, I've been here too long, I can't just change."

Yeah, people  may think it's a bit strange, but if you feel it's necessary for YOU, who cares what other people think.

I'm not sure if this helped at all. But I do wish everyone a good life.

Gotta go now.

Mon